A Forgiven heart

The Unforgiven Servant

Matthew 18:21-35

21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, when my brother sins against me, how many times must I forgive him? Should I forgive him as many as 7 times?”

22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, you must forgive him more than 7 times. You must forgive him even if he does wrong to you 70 times 7.

23 “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who decided to collect the money his servants owed him. 24 So the king began to collect his money. One servant owed him several million dollars. 25 But the servant did not have enough money to pay his master, the king. So the master ordered that everything the servant owned should be sold, even the servant’s wife and children. The money would be used to pay the king what the servant owed.

26 “But the servant fell on his knees and begged, ‘Be patient with me. I will pay you everything I owe.’ 27 The master felt sorry for his servant. So the master told the servant he did not have to pay. He let the servant go free.

28 “Later, that same servant found another servant who owed him a few dollars. The servant grabbed the other servant around the neck and said, ‘Pay me the money you owe me!’

29 “The other servant fell on his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me. I will pay you everything I owe.’

30 “But the first servant refused to be patient. He threw the other servant into prison until he could pay everything he owed. 31 All the other servants saw what happened. They were very sorry. So they went and told their master all that had happened.

32 “Then the master called his servant in and said, ‘You evil servant! You begged me to forget what you owed. So I told you that you did not have to pay anything. 33 I had mercy on you. You should have had the same mercy on that other servant.’ 34 The master was very angry, and he put the servant in prison to be punished. The servant had to stay in prison until he could pay everything he owed.

35 “This king did what my heavenly Father will do to you if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.”


Having a forgiven heart is very important because when we forgive others, God can forgive us but if we do not forgive others then God cannot forgive us. Also forgiving others helps to release the anger in your heart that you have against that person. Sometimes it may be hard to forgive others but that is why you have to pray that God can help you to forgive.


Matthew 6:14 Yes, if you forgive others for the things they do wrong, then your Father in heaven will also forgive you for the things you do wrong.  But if you don’t forgive the wrongs of others, then your Father in heaven will not forgive the wrong things you do.


Holding grudges against someone can produce an unforgiven heart. Unforgiveness also allows bitterness to come into our heart as well. So we must always be forgiven so that we can keep our heart filled with love. Love produces a forgiven heart!


What is a grudge? Well, a grudge is holding unresolved anger toward someone.


Always remember that Jesus instructed us that no matter how many times a person hurts us, we have to forgive them. It is just as God forgives us over and over for our disobedience.


Always have a Forgiven Heart!